Jimmy Kimmel & Wife Molly McNearney Have the Best Explanation for Son Billy’s Scar

Jimmy Kimmel and his wife, Molly McNearney, refuse to let their son grow up ashamed of his “awesome” surgery scars – and they’ve come up with the perfect way to boost his confidence. 

“We’re going to tell him he was attacked by a monster,” the late-night host told Us Weekly while at a benefit event for the Children’s Hospital Los Angeles. 

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Their 18-month-old son, Billy, was born with a congenital heart defect called tetralogy of fallot that affects only 1 in every 2,000 babies according to Scientific American. The condition, which restricts the amount of oxygen pumping through the heart, can be deadly if not treated early. Thankfully, the Mayo Clinic reports that, if diagnosed and treated at a young age, those born with the condition can still go on to live healthy, full lives. 

Thanks to multiple surgeries and excellent care from the Children’s Hospital Los Angeles, McNearney says little Billy has the opportunity to be a totally normal kid. “You’d have no idea [anything was wrong] besides his awesome scar on his body,” she told Us. 

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Kimmel made headlines last year after giving a heart-wrenching monologue about his son’s condition on his show. He tearfully pleaded with politicians to make health care a universal, accessible right for all Americans, many of whom can’t currently afford the kinds of expensive procedures and medications Billy needed to survive. 

His political statements don’t end with health care, though. This summer, Kimmel vocalized his disdain for the Trump administration’s decision to separate migrant and asylum-seeking families at the border and joined dozens of other celebrities in donating to organizations that provide legal counsel to those affected.

Billy couldn’t have asked for two cooler, more compassionate parents. 

Why I’m Saying Hell No to a Baby Shower

First of all, let me just say that I couldn’t be happier to be pregnant. This (third) time around, it was a particular cause for celebration because at one point, we really didn’t think it was going to happen. We tried for a year, went through initial fertility tests and were told that my “diminished ovarian reserve” would drastically reduce our chances. Then it happened, and it was the most amazing, unexpected thing ever. Against all odds, we’re having a baby – a girl. 

But I don’t want a baby shower.

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Another thing: I’m an introvert, but I’m not antisocial. I love spending time with my friends and family. I like going to parties, and I get excited about celebrating birthdays, weddings, Christmases. 

But I still don’t want a baby shower. (Or a hatchelorette or a sprinkle, for that matter.)

This is actually the first pregnancy when I’ve had to even think about this. I live in the U.K., and it’s only been in the last few years that baby showers have reached American levels of popularity. In that time, I’ve been to several. I hate them for the same reasons I hate bachelorette parties: forced fun, women only, the financial cost, etc., but also because I’m now in my third trimester, and for the most part, my idea of fun is lying on the couch eating pizza, watching Netflix and getting my husband or kid to give me a head massage. 

That doesn’t mean I think baby showers should be banned. As I said, I’ve been to several. I even organized one for my own best friend. I just think the focus is all wrong, particularly in the third trimester, which is when most baby showers are held. 

As soon as the baby is born, the focus is on them. So when a mom is at that almost-there stage, when she’s feeling heavy and achy and tired because she’s getting up 15 times through the night to pee, the focus should be on her. It’s no easy job, creating a brand-new human. 

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From experience, what I really need from my friends and family at this time is support and connection. I want to hear other women’s experiences of pregnancy and childbirth and babies, even if I’ve heard them all before. I want to be encouraged as I waddle through the last few weeks of pregnancy. I want to feel supported and valued and able to ask for help. I want to know I have people around me I can talk to if I have concerns about my mental health or am just freaking out about cracked nipples. 

Speaking of help, I think the best thing you can do for a pregnant woman is offer to lend a hand. I don’t need an expensive hamper filled with baby clothes and toys and gadgets or a cake made of 400 diapers. I’d rather have a meal for my freezer that I can tuck into five days postpartum when I’m too exhausted and distracted to put a meal together. I’d rather have someone take my kids out for a couple of hours so I can sleep.  

Another thing I hate about baby showers is how stereotypically gendered they are. Having a girl? Everything’s pink. A boy? Nothing but blue will do. I’m fully expecting to spend the first few months of 2019 living in a giant pink marshmallow thanks to gifts from well-wishers. To provide some balance, I’m currently stocking up on gray, blue, yellow, green and red clothes for my daughter, who definitely won’t be raised believing that “pink is for girls.” 

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It took a little while to convince my friends that my anti-baby shower stance was serious and not just me being polite. (Like when someone says they “don’t want a big fuss” for their birthday when in fact they’re secretly hoping for a circus-themed surprise party with Charlie Puth on the mic and Zac Efron jumping out of a cake.) But they’ve accepted it, so the pressure is off. Instead of a baby shower, I went for a low-key lunch with three of my closest friends. They brought me a beautiful bouquet of flowers. We spoke about my pregnancy and imminent arrival, but we spoke about lots of other things too: their kids, their jobs, their lives. We didn’t play the dirty diapers game, they didn’t guess my bump measurement, and there wasn’t a pink balloon in sight. 

It was perfect. 

Chrissy Teigen Believes Eating Placenta Helped Her Avoid Postpartum Depression

Chrissy Teigen is always in the news. The model, author and mother of two is known for her honesty, wit and candor (not to mention her amazing social media presence). And while Teigen regularly talks about motherhood, including her struggles conceiving and with postpartum depression, one thing Teigen hasn’t spoken about before is placentophagy, or the act of eating your (or someone else’s) placenta. However, in an interview with Rita Braver for Sunday’s Best: Celebrating 40 Years of CBS Sunday Morning, Teigen opened up about just that.

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In fact, Teigen revealed that she believes eating her placenta helped her avoid postpartum depression.

“It sounds ridiculous, but people have this belief that, if you eat your placenta, it gets all those nutrients that you lost when you were pregnant rather than just losing them immediately and losing that rush of endorphins. By taking these dry placenta pills you can kind of keep this energy up and be weaned off that feeling more,” Teigen said in the interview.

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Teigen noted that she “didn’t do this with Luna” and, looking back, she wishes she had. “Looking back… [I thought] ‘I should have ate my placenta.'”

Braver then joked that she couldn’t have Teigen eating her “placenta on primetime” to which Teigen responded, “Really? That’s not a normal thing? I’m in LA. It’s very normal. They grill it here. You can try some of mine after.”

That said, it is important to note that the health benefits of placenta-eating have not been proven. There is actually no medical evidence on the subject. What’s more, while many celebrities swear it is beneficial, the American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology actually advises against placenta ingestion.

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The full interview will air on CBS on Friday, Sept. 14 at 8/7c.